June 24, 2023

I made it! Two countries, 260 Kilometers, give or take, one rest day, 13 days of walking, 2 short taxi rides, one blister, and two sore ankles; yet, when I entered the Cathedral square, following the stone path from the Portuguese Route, I jumped for joy. I can now claim, along with 500 or more other walkers that on June 23, 2023, I completed the required walking distance, and stamped credential to prove that I have completed the Camino de Santiago Portuguese Route and today and forevermore I can declare myself a Pilgrim. Once a Pilgrim always a Pilgrim.

What does it mean that I am a Pilgrim? The Cathedral de Santiago is one of three holy sites declared by the Pope to absolve the sins of a person who walks the required pilgrimage, including the Vatican in Rome and Jerusalem. In short, I am to be buried with my scallop shell – the original symbol of a pilgrim – and allowed into heaven because I have been absolved of all my sin. After our jubilant celebration, picture taking, and posturing, the seven of us set out to the Pilgrim’s office to register our credentials and receive our certificates. The credential is a passport of sorts, replacing the scallop shell of yesteryears, proving with the collection of ink stamps throughout each day, that we actually trekked the distance we said we had. Some stamps are simple, some elaborate, and some we began to seek out for posterity. For example, a required stop almost each day was to the pharmacy for braces, bandages, and medication, so it seemed appropriate to seek out a pharmacy stamp commemorating our visits.

Once we took care of business, Denise and I visited the Pilgrims’ House. This is a nonprofit group of volunteers who help pilgrims with assistance once they land in Santiago de Compostela. The volunteers speak many languages, including perfect English. One service they provide, in addition to laundry and bag storage, is a debriefing. For some this pilgrimage is more than a walk, it is life changing, especially if they are lost, grieving, or feeling disconnected within their own life. A frequent expression once a Pilgrim enters the Cathedral square is, “now what?” As a form of their own debriefing, Denise, Dennis, and Ella asked all of us a couple days previously to mull over some questions and later that afternoon they recorded our answers.

The first question was, “What was your expectation when you started?” I actually didn’t have any expectations. I had no specific reason for walking, other than showing support for Ella and Fibro Fighters, so I was open to all experiences and lessons. I did anticipate a lot of walking, but I learned through experimentation that a person can flex their walking experience to suit their style, abilities, and preferences. A purist would probably awake at daybreak, walk 25 to 30 kilometers per day, stopping only at roadside cafes along the route and sleeping in an Albergue or shared dormitory style accommodation for the evening. We spent some days walking 21 kilometers and sleeping at Albergues, but I also took a taxi into town one afternoon after walking 11 to 13 kilometers when my knees were aching and and took a taxi away from town a few miles around an industrial area to the countryside route, ending our day at a rural villa. Each Camino is different depending on the walker, and each walker chooses the path they wish to walk. With this daily experimentation, I learned that not one way of walking was best for me. Some days I could walk like a warrior, up and out early, and walking all day; whereas, a couple days I needed taxi assistance, and one day I needed a full day of rest. I have always been good about listening to my body, but on this journey I was reminded to take one day at a time.
The next question was, “What were your highs and lows of the trip?” I thought the high was going to be the end, walking into the Cathedral Square, but upon reflection, the high was the journey itself, everyday waking up excited to see what that day would bring. My low was having to walk the Camino without my husband. Dan was called home for family obligations and I didn’t get the chance to walk it with him and because of that the experience was completely different, not in a bad way, just different.
The last question was, “What three words would you use to describe the Camino?” My words were ambling, connection, and sublime. Ambling is what we embarked on every day – a stroll through backroads, cobbled paths, medieval villages, and along rivers and streams for pleasure. I was surprised at the connection and reconnection I made with the people within our group. I was told that feeling of connection is common, but usually with other pilgrims you meet along the way, but because we were such a tight knit group that connection grew within. And lastly the sublime emotion of awe and beauty toward the nature I experienced every day in northern Portugal and Galacial Spain.

Checking our bags at the Pilgrim House, we set out to attend the noon time Pilgrims’ mass. In olden times, pilgrims, who were usually very dirty and many very sick by the time they reach the Cathedral, were required to wash their feet before entering. To this day many pilgrims entered the temple dirty, bloody, and bandaged. In Latin, the sacred mass ended with a group of priests swinging the Botafumeiro – one of the largest in the world – and only performed on special occasions as a symbol of spiritual purification, but because we completed our pilgrimage on the summer solstice and Saint John’s Day, we lucked into observing this ancient tradition. To end this full day, we booked a private tour of the cathedral and adjacent museum before our celebratory dinner.

The next day I took a bus tour to the west coast, with a specific trip to Fisterra (Finiserre), which was once thought of by the Romans as the end of the world because no other land was known to be of existence further West of Europe. A once popular ritual, many pilgrims would continue on from Santiago to Fisterra, burn their disease-riddled clothes, and observe the Compostela, which means field of stars, blanketing the sky at the end of the world viewed over the Atlantic Ocean. On this day, I chose not to burn my clothes, but ended my journey at one of the furthest points west, returning home with the feeling of contentment, plans with my new friends, and lifelong memories.

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